“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him” (2 Chronicles 16:9 NKJV). Years ago, our sons Elijah, Luke and Gabriel loved it when their dad (Lee) came home from work and took them hiking through the woods near our home. As toddlers, the children tuckered-out easily and begged, “Daddy carry me, daddy please?” Gladly, he picked up Luke and held him in one arm and Gabriel in the other; but the oldest little guy Elijah walked alongside. Sashaying happily, Elijah often fell down; then repeated the process. I recall watching Lee as he patiently waited for Elijah to stand upright and begin following again. Sweet remembrances like those linger in my mind and when they do I think of our heavenly Father. I’m grateful we have a long-suffering Abba-Daddy who stands by in attendance, keeping watch as we stumble through life. To be honest, we need to humble ourselves quiteContinue reading »

Ever since mom passed away a couple of years ago, I’ve had these nagging feelings of guilt. Wishing I had been a better daughter haunts me. As you may know, guilt is an emotional experience that a person realizes or believes (accurately or not) that he or she has compromised his or her own standards of conduct. Also, guilt is closely related to remorse. Fortunately, psychology doesn’t have an answer or cure for guilty feelings. Even Sigmund Freud, father of psychology, stated: “guilt is the most powerful of all obstacles to one’s recovery”. And, yes I said ‘fortunately’ psychiatry isn’t the cure because there’s a better way. Let’s take a peak at the best solution for guilt by looking into the life of Israel’s most famous King. We read in the Old Testament book of 2 Samuel about the exposure of David’s adultery with Bathsheba and the murder of her husband, Uriah. For sure, this was a dismal period in the life of King David. By divine commission, the prophetContinue reading »

How could marriage ever be a sin? Isn’t marriage God’s will for our lives? Look at all the happily married couples in our church. How could God ever frown upon such a beautiful sight? If it weren’t for marriage you wouldn’t be around young man. These are thought you may have right now as you read the title of this article or perhaps you have some different thoughts. Regardless where you find yourself in life, be it married or single, everyone seems to have strong feelings regarding this topic. I should mention from the start that I have nothing against marriage, but with a divorce rate near fifty percent both inside and outside the church, I have to wonder if marriage is the best option for everyone. This seems like an odd thing to say in a society where junior high girls look at bridal magazines in the hopes of eventually finding someone to be happy with for the remainder of their lives. Yet it is this attitude that has causedContinue reading »

There once was an old farmer who was carrying a huge sack of potatoes on his back. The poor man almost collapsed under the weight and it was a sorry sight. Somebody who passed by with a sturdy horse-drawn wagon had compassion on the old man and offered him a ride. “Hey old timer…Wanna jump on? Hate to see you struggling like that.” The old farmer was thankful and with some difficulty he climbed up on the wagon. When he was finally seated he smiled broadly. “Thank you, Sir, for helping me out like that. That’s awfully kind of you.” But the heavy back of potatoes remained firmly on his sagging shoulders. Sweat trickled down his face and a weary sigh escaped his mouth. “Hey old man…Put those potatoes down. There’s no need for you to carry that load.” The driver of the wagon did not understand why the farmer kept that heavy bag on his shoulders. “Of course I amContinue reading »

I’m sure you’re aware that ‘rest in hope’ is the name of this website and I adore the title. You know, I’ve never heard the words rest and hope in the same sentence before, but it makes perfect sense. For one thing, we cannot have true rest unless we place our hope in Christ. And another thing, only God grants the kind of rest that restores our souls “He makes me lie down in [fresh, tender] green pastures; He leads me beside the still and restful waters, He refreshes and restores my life” (Psalm 23:2-3 Amp). I confess, I know next to nothing about the art of resting, but I’d like to. Again, I say ‘art’ of resting because I believe one must cultivate skills of relaxation. I don’t know about you, but calmness doesn’t come easy for me. By nature, I’m spontaneous, impulsive and usually blurt out words I should have kept to myself. On the opposite side and thank God, my husband is a thinker. I’m grateful forContinue reading »

Of him are ye in Christ Jesus, who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption: that, according as it is written, He that glorieth let him glory in the Lord – 1 Corinthians 1:30-31 We first observe here the source of our blessings. They are of God and in Christ. We are not righteous in ourselves, but receive the imputed righteousness of Christ. It is according to God’s purpose and by his grace that we are in Christ and that these spiritual blessings are ours. Additional blessings are then described: not only do we have righteousness in Christ but also wisdom, sanctification and redemption. Wisdom that is not our own, sanctification that we could not effect on our own, and redemption that we could not purchase on our own. All of this is found in Christ alone. We then look at what our response should be: glory in the Lord! What are you rejoicing in today? What are you boasting about today? We cannotContinue reading »

A lovely young couple got married over the weekend at our local church in Tifton Georgia. During the wedding ceremony the beautiful bride washed her beloved’s feet. Then, the handsome groom cleansed hers. Ever so often, something memorable comes along that’s special. Can you imagine what a wonderful marriage this will be if they continue yielding to one another. Not that any union is always smooth sailing but humility goes a long way in making things run better; much like what oil does for a car’s engine. To broaden our perspective, let’s marvel at Jesus’ demeanor. In studying Jesus’ character traits, is it worth the effort for us to adopt a spirit of lowliness? I think yes. His own disciples selfishly argued over who would be exalted and sit with Him in lofty places of honor when He came into His Kingdom (Luke 22:24). By all means, they wanted to be noticed for greatness and I’m guessing this type of behavior gave Christ a saddened heart. In light of that,Continue reading »

Newly married, my husband and I discussed where we should live and raise our children. Suggesting his hometown made me terribly queasy. A fearful attitude crept in and I doubted my ability to get along with others. How would I adapt to meeting new people in a strange town, much less warm to in-laws? Boy, was I wrong. I was tenderly blessed with exceptional and delightful second parents. I especially loved Betty. She showered loving-kindnesses toward me and I felt completely accepted and loved; included as part of the family. Honestly, she practically raised our four children; and, for that I’m eternally grateful. Tom and Betty are with the Lord now, yet because of the manner in which they conducted themselves, we see sprinklings of adoration hovering in our home infecting and empowering the next generation. In a word: Phenomenal. Betty exuded joy upon all who knew her. Furthermore, memories linger in the corners of my mind of how she lived a Christ-like example without judging or hitting me overContinue reading »

“And the secret [mystery] is simply this: Christ in you! Yes, Christ in you bringing with Him the hope of all the glorious things to come” (Colossians 1:27 Phillips). Even though I gave my heart to Christ as a young child, I didn’t completely understand what it all meant. Growing up, I wasn’t sure where or if I belonged. Later, teenage years brought excruciating pain especially when dad (who I adored) died of a heart attack. A blind-sided avalanche—covered and smothered; I longed to be wanted, loved, and to matter to someone. Of course, I was vividly angry with God. Like a ship with no water, I had nowhere to sail. That is, until my last ditch effort of seeking my heavenly Father. Which brings me to an important topic that the Apostle Paul wants believers to understand. If we are to have any idea how to live a ‘good and productive’ life as Christ followers, it’s imperative we understand our position. Namely, we are ‘in Christ’ and He isContinue reading »